to start out i want to say that i know that in a sense i can be classified as a little girl from the burbs.

people seem to not get it. those stupid little boys that were trying to put my down tonight will never get it. they are little rich boys from fucking white folks bay that, because they were raised getting whatever they wanted, think that they are better than every one else. they are oblivious to the fact that women are actually able to make their own decisions and that they can have minds. & if they happen to speak their minds that there are people put there who will respect that. and because they are so caught up in their own world where all the girls play the roles that they are expected to play it is a shock to them when there is a woman who will speak out against whatever bullshit they have to say about how we are suppose to act. let alone it be an attractive woman. i just don't get it. these asshole 16 year old boys act as though they are my superior because they are male and come from a community where all the men are either doctors or lawyers & all their wives sit at home and play the role of pretty little house wife, just as they were taught. if i woman wants to go out and say what is on her mind, it seems, she has to be unattractive according to the minds of these males and if she is attractive she better be gay, that way they can have their little fantasies of threesomes with lesbians. when i tried to speak my mind they got on my case and asked if i was gay. when i informed them that i was actually straight & was in fact seeing some one they kept asking if i was dating a gay guy & if i had had threesomes with said guy & "some other fag" & if i was actually making up a boyfriend so i didn't seem as though i was pathetic. it seems as if they are unable to realize that there are straight guys out there that are able to unable to understand that there are guys out there that can respect a woman with her own mind & they will never get it. the closest they will ever get to it is when they find some feminist that they want to date solely on the basis of looks and they try to fake being aware of woman's rights and pretend to listen to what she has to say just to get her in bed. and i look at the girls who are around them. they are the stereotype of what a woman "should" be. they play the role and don't try to see what women are as a whole and how they are portraying this ideal of what a woman should be. last thing i want to hear is the mothers of these boys telling me that in 4 i'll be engaged to some doctor or lawyer and i'll be happy for the rest of my life. i don't want to be 23 and have the rest of my life planed out for me. i want to live and if i happen to find something that is right for me then so be it, but i want to live first. life is to live and enjoy, not to be what others tell you to be. so don't be one of those assholes and let women be who they want to be and don't persecute them for actually wanting to be valued in the world for being something other than having babies every few years. the best women in this world are those who stand up for what they believe in and speak their mind, and if they find some one that can respect them for that, more power to them, but don't bring them down because you are incapable of accepting the idea of women being open minded, out spoken, beautiful, and appreciated by others, both women AND men, for her beauty AND mind.